"There!” the wife gave
her best smile to her husband as she adjusted the tie again. “Now you are
perfect.”
The husband laughed
heartily and agreed. “True, now I am perfect!” His arms wrapped around his wife
and he pulled her close. He gave her a kiss on the lips. When their lips
parted, the wife sighed dramatically, drawing yet more laughter from her
husband. If nothing else, the wife was a woman who knows how to make her
husband a happy man.
“Have a good day
today.” the husband said to her before turning to the other woman in the room.
“Obey your mistress in all things.”
The concubine bowed
her head low and said, “Yes Master.”
With the greetings
over, the husband left the house for his first day of work as the new Chief
Finance Officer at his company. A company owned by the family of his new wife.
As the door closes, the
wife felt a wave of contentment and relief. Her husband had gone to work and
now she has the whole house to herself. Well, except for her husband’s
concubine but a servant hardly count. Still, having a concubine around meant the
wife can have some fun.
Walking to the living
room, the wife beckoned the concubine to follow her. The concubine clasped her
hands in front of her, bowed her head and demurely followed the wife. When the
wife sat on a chair, the concubine knelt in front of her and bowed her head to
the ground. Her forehead hit the ground hard enough that the house echoed with
the sound.
The wife smiled. The
concubine only did what was proper but it was still a joy to see she had a concubine
who knew her place.
“Go to kneeling
position,” the wife sneered, “and state your position in this house.”
The concubine raised
her head and went into a text-book kneeling position. Her head was looking
down, her knees were apart, and her palms were placed on her knee. “This woman
is the concubine of the house. Her role is to serve the master and obey the
mistress of the house in all things.”
“You were once the
mistress of this house were you not?” The wife asked. “How do you feel now as
the concubine?”
“It is my joy that my
former husband, now my master, is successful enough to take a higher, more
beautiful woman as a wife. It is heaven’s will that I am to be a concubine and
I welcome my new, more fitting role in the house.”
“A more fitting role
indeed,” the wife mocked. “Truly with your lack of beauty, grace and elegance,
you are a woman undeserving of the role of a wife.”
“Yes mistress,” this
woman agreed.
The wife was pleased
that the concubine’s voice was lower, a sign of her humiliation. Frankly the
wife was not truly more beautiful than the concubine and both of them knew it.
However the wife was 10 years younger and the concubine was showing her age
after 7 years of marriage and 2 children, one of them a boy. When the wife first
heard that the former wife had agreed to be the concubine, the wife had
half-wondered whether it was because of her children or because she truly loved
the husband.
Ultimately it doesn’t
matter. As the concubine, she was just the faceless servant of the family. It
would be beneath the wife to worry about the concubine’s feelings.
The wife stood up and
walked to a cupboard. She made a show of opening a drawer and taking out the
bamboo cane within. She walked back to the concubine and gave her order. “I
will now check on the cleanliness of the house. If I find any dirt, punishments
will be issued.”
“Yes mistress”
“You may crawl behind
me as I inspection the house.”
“Yes mistress”
The cane struck the
concubine immediately. The strike hit the concubine on the shoulder and she
flinched. However she stayed on her knees and the wife was pleased by her
reactions. The concubine was afraid of the cane but obedient enough to stay in
position; the prefect combination.
“Bowed and show your
pleasure at the privilege of following your mistress, you stupid worm.” She
shouted.
The concubine bowed
her head to the ground and again the house echoed with the sound of her head
hitting the floor. “Yes mistress,” the concubine groveled. “Thank you for
allowing this worthless worm the privilege of following in your glorious
footsteps.”
With the concubine’s
head bowed to the ground and her ass high in the air, the temptation was just
too great for the wife. The cane flashed again, this time striking the
concubine on her back.
“Follow”
With that order, the
wife turned and went on her inspection. With no order to stand, the concubine crawled
on her hands and knees behind the wife. The wife looked back and liked what she
saw. Then, she decided that from now on, she would always want the concubine to
crawl behind her on her daily inspection.
For the wife, the
inspection was disappointing. The house was spotless. The former wife of her
husband seemed to be taking her new duties as a concubine very seriously. In
theory this was good but on her first day as the wife of the house, the wife
understood she needed to establish her power over the former wife with a heavy
punishment.
“Stand up for an
inspection”
The concubine stood up
and the wife took a good look at the attire of the concubine. She could find
nothing wrong with it. The concubine’s head was covered with a black tudong
with a veil veering the lower half of her face. A white long-sleeved tunic
covered her body and a pair of black trousers covered her legs to her ankles.
On her feet were a pair of white socks and everything was a size too big for
her.
This was only right as
a woman’s body shape, especially a married woman, must be hidden. The wife’s
attire was similar to the concubine’s only she does not wear a veil to cover
her face nor a pair of trousers. As the wife, she was allowed to show her face
and to wear a feminine long black skirt instead.
It was then that the
idea hit the wife. The wife smiled and asked, “Your attire looked good on the
surface. Tell me, concubine, what are you wearing beneath your cloths?”
The concubine was
slightly surprised by the question but dutifully answered. “This concubine is
wearing normal cotton panties with a plain bra, mistress.”
The wife’s smile
widened and asked, “Traditionally a concubine may wear nothing beneath her
clothes. Do you not know that worm?”
The concubine lowered
her head slightly and answered. “Yes mistress. Nowadays, it is normal for a
concubine to wear underclothes and this concubine foolishly believed she was
allowed to do so as well. Please punish this concubine for her mistake.”
“Yes, I will.” The
wife said. “But first you will take off the offending garments.”
The concubine
hesitated for the first time today and the wife seized the chance to use the
cane again. “Right now worm!” the wife shouted as the cane hit the concubine on
the arm.
The concubine knew she
had no choice but to obey. This is the way of life in Songhan since ancient
times. The concubine must always obey the orders of the wife.
The concubine quickly
took off her tunic and trousers, leaving only her tudong and veil on. She then
took off her bra and panties, knowing that except for her bleeding period, this
would be the last time she would ever wear them. The concubine offered her bra
and panties to the wife with both hands. The wife did not take them.
“Place the panties on
top of your head, then kneel and bowed. Place your bra on the ground and I want
your head touching it while punishment is given.”
“Yes mistress”
The concubine knelt
and placed the bra on the ground before her. She then took her panties and wore
it over her head. Bowing her head to the ground, the concubine placed her
forehead on the bra and said. “Mistress, this worthless worm is ready. Please
punish this worm so that she may serve the family properly in the future.”
The wife took a
position behind the concubine and smiled at the naked body before her. The cane
went up and down, striking the concubine on her ass. For both of them, this was
but the first of many punishment sessions between the two of them.
Shuang Mei closed the book and hugged her two daughters
closer to her. "So what do you two think of the story?" she asked.
Xiao Fung, the younger one at 4, answered first. "That
was a terrible story, mummy. That wife was so bad."
"No, she wasn't." Xiao Lan, the older one at 5,
replied. "She is a wife. She didn't do anything wrong."
"You two are both right." Shuang Mei answered.
"She was bad to the concubine but she didn't do anything wrong." Her
two daughters looked at her with unknowing looks and Shuang Mei explained, “The
wife played her role, just as the concubine played hers. And both of them did
so under the orders of their husband."
"But the husband in the story is wrong." Xiao Fung
complained. "When a man takes a new woman, she should be a concubine, not the
wife. The husband did something wrong."
"Xiao Fung, you are the one who is wrong." The
young mother patiently told her youngest daughter. "The husband is never
wrong. Remember this always, we are women. We are last and the least of Heaven’s
children. Our role in the Celestial Order is to serve men, and no matter what
decision he makes, we must obey.”
Both her daughters looked at her expectantly and Shuang Mei continued,
“In the future, when you two grow up, whether you are a wife or a concubine, you
must always accept and play your part because it is a role given to you by your
husband. Whatever position you are given, you must accept it and strive to do
your best in that role." Shuang Mei put her hands on the book and
continued. "In the story, the wife was harsh to the concubine but only
because she needed to be. She has a role to play in the house. To ensure the
smooth running of the household and that's what she did. She checked the house
for cleanliness and punished the concubine if she made a mistake. That's what
she did."
"So...the wife did nothing wrong?" Xiao Lan asked
timidly.
"No, she did not little one." Shuang Mei said.
"So, what's the moral of the story?"
"To obey your husband." Xiao Fung said.
"To know your role." Xiao Lan said.
"You are both correct!" Shuang Mei said. "The
moral of the story is that a woman's position is based on her relationship with
her husband and no matter what position he gives you, you must accept it."
The young mother kissed both girls on their heads and said,
"Time for bed now."
She tugged both girls into bed and said her goodnights.
After making sure everything was in order, Shuang Mei closed the door to the
girl's bedroom. She stood there in the hallway looking at the book she had in
her hands.
The "Husband, Wife, and Concubine" was an ancient
Songhan tale that had been adapted countless times to fit the time period. It
was a tale Shuang Mei first heard as a little girl and now she was telling it
to her daughters. Shuang Mei was amazed at how timeless the story was.
Although it was bedtime for the girls, her husband still
wasn't home yet. Shuang Mei knew he was at a marriage meeting, negotiating with
a family to take their daughter as a second wife. Her husband hasn't told her
yet if she would continue to be the wife of the house when the new woman come
into the household but after only 2 daughters in 6 years of marriage, Shuang
Mei was under no illusion.
Shuang Mei knew there was a good chance her husband would
require her to be a concubine if she wish to stay in the family. If not, Shuang
Mei would be given a chance to leave, either back to her father's house or to a
nunnery to live out her life.
Neither was possible.
There was no way Shuang Mei would ever leave her daughters
at such a young age. Shuang Mei held the book to her chest. "Husband,
Wife, and Concubine" was a story that reminded people that for good or
bad, they must play the role they were given by the Celestial Order. Shuang Mei
wasn't just reading the story to her daughters; she was also reading it to
herself.
Whatever role her husband gave her, she would play it. No,
she would do more than that; as the concubine in the story said, "She
would welcome her role.” Shuang Mei smiled sadly. Whatever decision her husband
makes, it would be her destiny.